Fathers are special
creatures, everyone talks about mothers love but only few people recognize the
love of a dad, whenever you go around asking people between the love of their
mom or dad, you find higher figures saying it’s their mom, but the fact is that
some fathers love for the child is even more than some of the mothers outside
there, still you find children taking their mothers side.
Dad’s might not show
affection all the time, belief you me, it doesn’t mean that they love you less.
Fathers are the first friend you make and the last love of one’s life.
I get surprised and
shocked whenever I see children misbehaving and disrespecting their fathers
which suppose not to be, fathers are to be treated the same way mothers are
treated.
Truly, some fathers
fails in their responsibilities towards
their children, but that doesn’t mean they should be rejected and shown love by
the children, we all have to know one thing and keep it in mind, Without a
father a mother alone cannot be able to give birth to a child.
A father may be denied
and rejected but you will never see a father rejecting his kids, fathers love
are always not seen but they have what is called true affection towards their
kids, a dad will always point you as his child despite the fact that you don’t
recognize his existence.
Before a father can be
called a failed Dad, children should all remember that he once take care of
them and loved them, which I know for sure he will always love and care for you
as a dad, we live in a world where everyone forget the good deeds you once do
them and start hating you for just a single minute mistake.
It is true that mothers
love have more power on the child because she is closer to the child and in
most cases, mothers don’t go to work and they are always at home with the
children while the father goes to work, sometimes he leave home very early and
come back late just to make sure he put food on his family’s table and not
always at home which is very wrong, I agree on this. As a father you should
always try to create time for yourself and family to get closer them and to
avoid not loved by your kids.
Loving fathers are self-sacrificing
and protect their children, a father’s love is unconditional, he may not say it
to you. Rather, hewill demonstrate his love moment by moment, your dad will
always love in the same manner God loves you.
Some fathers goes into
taking hard drugs not because of frustrations of life but they go into it because
they were denied of love and care by their children or other members of the
family.
What I want everyone to
know is that be it a responsible or irresponsible dad you have, always love and
care for him because without him, you can’t be given birth to and even a mom
which you love and adore so much and without a dad, you can’t be in the
position you are today, without a dad, you can’t have a surname that you bear.
Please always love and care for your dad so that you have bright future and a
peaceful ending.
Jubril Danna
08161198687
dannajubril@gmail.com
